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The Anatomy of an Affair – Part 1
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David has a passion for helping people recover from infidelity and his practice is dedicated to accomplishing just that. David says, “Everyone will recover from infidelity…you have no choice….the question is HOW?”

Listen in as David touches on how affairs begin, sexual versus emotional affairs, the role sex addiction has in affairs, whether a person should admit to an affair, how to rebuild trust after an affair and much more.

The Anatomy of an Affair – Part 2
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In Part 2 of this series David speaks about how you can put your world back together after an affair.  In order to heal you need a VISION and in part 2 David explains his exciting 6-step recovery process that he calls VISION.  VISION can lead to recovery, as well as a better future.”


The Anatomy of an Affair – Part 3
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Here we focus on recovery.  David believes that moving “from discovery to recovery” means much more than allowing time to pass. David says, “if you do that you leave the quality of your recovery up to the Gods” and are you sure that is what you want to do?

In this segment we discuss what factors a person should consider when deciding whether or not to rebuilding their relationship.  If you decide not to rebuild we discuss how you can rebuilding you so you can become the best version of yourself possible.

The most common reactions that people have after discovering a partner’s affair are reviewed and David speaks about ways that you can take care of yourself during this difficult time. Regardless of when the affair happened you will benefit from the constructive and important information included in this segment.

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The Anatomy of an Affair – Part 4
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Here we take a look at why affairs happen. David discusses different kinds of affairs and what recovery meas in each.  David also shares his expertise about things you may consider if you suspect your spouse is cheating.


The Anatomy of an Affair – Part 5
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In this episode David answers questions that he is commonly asked by many of his clients in during counselling sessions.  If you wonder:

  • Should I agree to therapy with my partner if he/she hasn’t ended their affair yet?
  • What is the best way to end an affair?
  • How do you make your partner feel safe when they pushe me away.
  • How do you rebuild trust after an affair?
  • What about sex after an affair? I don’t feel like it but I’m afraid if I say no, my partner may act out with the affair partner again?
  • What is forgiveness?
  • Should I tell my children about the affair?
  • Affairs in the workplace – What do I do if you both work at the same company?

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The Anatomy of an Affair – Part 6
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In this episode David Feder focuses on the PARTICIPATING PARTNER and the guidelines the person who cheated MUST follow in order to become a SUCCESSFUL REBUILDER.

The difference between the IMPOSTER who says he or she wants to heal and the PARTICIPATING PARTNER who doesn’t just talk but is willing to WALK THE TALK is committing to a series of guidelines that makes recovery possible.

In this episode we discuss:

  • How to help your spouse heal from an affair
  • How to become a successful relationship REBUILDER

David Feder’s Guest Appearance on Family Matters episode on Infidelity – 2013

“What She Said” on Sirius Radio XM interviews David Feder on the topic of “The Effects that Pornography Has on Our Youth” – 2014

“What She Said” on Sirius Radio XM interviews David Feder on the topic of “Infidelity and Sex Addiction” – 2014